Term 3 - Week 5 - 23rd August 2024
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From the Principal
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Learning & Teaching (AP)
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Mission and Wellbeing (AP)
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From the Classroom, Camps & Excursions
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Semester 1 Academic Awards
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Careers News
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Aboriginal Education News
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From the Library
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Dates to Note for August & September
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Supporting Mental Health Wellbeing
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Parent Support & Education
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Flexischools App - Online Canteen Orders - Reminder
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Parish News
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Advertisements
Dear Parents and Carers, Staff and Students,
As a Christ-centred, student-focused, inclusive learning community, our College Mission is to strive to develop the whole person through spiritual, academic, cultural, physical, and well-being experiences to enable students to achieve the fullness of life. This fortnight's newsletter contains many examples of these experiences! Congratulations to the many students across all the year groups who have engaged in these activities and experiences that the College offers.
Year 12 have returned from their trial examinations and will now be finishing off their courses, revising, and preparing for their graduation at the end of the term. Time goes very quickly for our Year 12 students as it is also a time for them to nominate themselves and their peers for various special awards, including the prestigious McAuley Medal, and submit an application for a College reference. The remainder of term 3 is a very important time for year 12 to consolidate their learning and complete their schooling experience.
Year 11 students are coming to the end of their preliminary courses, with an assessment week in week 9 of this term. The Student Leadership process is well underway, with nominations for various positions, interviews, speeches and voting scheduled for the next few weeks. I thank the many Year 11 students who have accepted nominations for a College leadership role, which is an opportunity to serve others.
Thank you to Mrs McGowan, who has been very busy coordinating, along with her team members, a number of activities and events for the College, including the Year 10 Future Pathways conversations and the upcoming Father’s Day Breakfast (29th August) and HSC Showcase of Projects (4th September). We are always seeking opportunities to engage with our parents and the wider community, so we encourage you to come along to these events, which, again, cover the many areas of College life and experience.
AP Mission and Wellbeing, Kathy Warby and her team are also busy planning a number of events and activities, including McAuley Day. This is our College Feast Day, where we celebrate our Mercy history and traditions and raise money for the Mercy organisation Mercy Works, which supports those less fortunate than ourselves, modelling Catherine McAuley and the Sisters of Mercy. We are looking forward to a great event on Friday 6th September.
Save the date - Our Term 3 Parent Forum Meeting will be on Tuesday, 10th September, at 6pm.
All the best for the fortnight ahead
Kate
Kate Thomson
Principal
“We should be shining lamps, giving light to all around us.”
Catherine McAuley
Congratulations to all the students who received certificates for their exceptional academic performance and commitment to our College Expectations during Semester 1. Last week, we acknowledged our year 11 students during our assembly time. Please see the later article in this newsletter "Semester 1 Academic Awards" for detailed information and list of award recipients.
We hope the school community can join us for an evening of inspiration as we showcase the incredible work of our Year 12 students in Design and Technology, Industrial Technology (Timber), Visual Arts, Drama, Music, and Dance. This is a unique opportunity to be amazed by our creative students' ingenuity and innovation and celebrate their outstanding achievements. We can't wait to share this special evening with you.
The event will begin in the Library at 4 p.m. on Wednesday, September 4th, where you and your child/children can explore the innovative and imaginative projects on display. We will then move to the performing arts area for a 5 p.m. start, where you can enjoy an evening filled with inspirational and engaging performances.
Light refreshments will be available. We look forward to sharing this special event with our school community and celebrating our students' hard work and talent.
Drop Everything and Read (D.E.A.R).
This is a reminder that DEAR occurs in period 3 in non-practical classes in years 7-10. We appreciate parental support in promoting reading at home and school.
Pope Francis has recently issued a letter emphasising the “value of reading novels and poems as part of one’s path to personal maturity…a good book can help us weather the storm until we find peace of mind”.
If anyone would like to read his publication, please click here
Year 11 Preliminary Exams Information
Students and parents have been provided with detailed information regarding their upcoming preliminary exams, beginning in Week 9 on Monday, September 16th. Attendance at these exams is compulsory.
Students are not expected to be at school if they do not have an exam. However, supervised study periods will be available for students who do not have a scheduled exam during a particular time slot. Students may go home after a morning exam or arrive at school later if they have an afternoon exam. Normal school processes regarding signing out / signing in are expected.
All students must be at the College at least 30 minutes before the start of any exam, and they must stay on the school premises between exams if they have both a morning and afternoon exam.
Students can only leave after a morning exam if accompanied by a parent/carer or if they have submitted the appropriate permission to drive form. Additionally, students are only permitted to leave with a driving student if both students have completed and submitted permission to drive forms.
Year 10 Future Pathways interviews.
Thank you to all the parents, teachers, and students who spent some time in week 5, ensuring that the pattern of study for the students in the class of 2026 is the most informed possible. It was great to listen to students articulate their goals or what is driving their choice for years 11 and 12.
Year 10 students were made aware of the importance of maintaining good study routines and high attendance to keep their options open. In week 6, a few interviews will be held to support those students who could not attend due to other commitments. A sincere thanks to the teaching staff and administration support who facilitated the sessions.
Dianne McGowan
Assistant Principal - Learning & Teaching
In the last newsletter, I introduced the Resilience Project. The Resilience Project is committed to teaching positive mental health strategies to prevent mental ill-health and build young people’s capacity to deal with adversity. Each week in the Pastoral Care lesson, the students undertake activities around the key principles of Gratitude, Empathy, Mindfulness (GEM) and Emotional Literacy to build resilience. For the last two weeks, the students have been reflecting on gratitude and thankful for their blessings. Below is an activity that considers gratitude as a family.
Gratitude
Working on gratitude helps us be thankful and appreciate what we have rather than focusing on what we don’t have or want. When we practise being grateful, we start to scan the world to look for positives – this only takes 21 days! Practising gratitude every day increases our levels of energy and helps us to feel happier and more focused, determined and optimistic. It even allows us to have a better sleep, lowers levels of anxiety and depression, and we are less likely to get sick. There are so many benefits – let’s all try to be grateful for the things and people in our lives every day!
Whole Family Activity: Gratitude Scavenger Hunt
As a family, create a scavenger hunt list of things that make you happy or you are grateful for; you can make your own list or use the examples below:
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Something that makes you happy
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Something you love to smell
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Something you enjoy looking at
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Something that is your favourite colour
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Something you like in nature
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Something that is useful for you
Each member of the family uses the list and has to find as many things as they can. You can hunt for things inside or outside, or both. You can hunt for real things or do this using magazines or pictures from the internet. After a set amount of time hunting, come back together, have a look at what each person collected and let them explain why they are grateful for each item.
Family Habit Builder:
Every night at dinner, have each person talk about their favourite thing about that day.
Anti-Bullying Week
Students thrive in safe environments that promote positive relationships, safety and wellbeing so they can achieve their full potential.
At McAuley Catholic College, we define bullying as an ongoing misuse of power in relationships. It is intended, and its repeated use causes harm, distress and fear. It may be verbal, physical or social behaviour involving individuals or groups.
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Bullying can happen in person or online, and it can be overt (done openly) or covert (hidden)
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Bullying will probably continue if no action is taken.
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Bullying is not the same as conflict or social dislike, even though, in some cases, the outcome of both can be bullying.
Our anti-bullying policy states that the school will take reasonable actions to develop plans and implement programs to deter bullying. Throughout the year, we have undertaken the following:
Pastoral Care Program – each student participates in a pastoral care program that their homeroom teacher leads. Students are expected to meet each week for a pastoral care lesson. Students engage in activities and discussions during these lessons to reinforce positive relationships. Anti-bullying messages are consistently offered with the support of contemporary research, including relevant media use and appropriate educational material.
Restorative Justice Program - The college strives to follow a process of Restorative Justice when dealing with behavioural issues. Restorative Justice endeavours to,
- Focus on the SPECIFIC BEHAVIOURS or INCIDENTS without blaming
- Draw out WHO WAS AFFECTED and HOW THEY WERE AFFECTED
- Direct questions towards the central issue in order to solve what needs to happen to MAKE THINGS RIGHT
Year Meetings – each cohort meets regularly with their Year Coordinator. This gives the Year Coordinators an opportunity to consistently convey the message that inappropriate behaviours will not be accepted and encourage reporting to staff if it does occur. Amongst other things, the intention is to eradicate the notion of ‘dobbing’ related to bullying issues and reinforce it as necessary ‘reporting’.
Assemblies—The whole College community generally meets weekly to celebrate students' achievements and successes. This is another opportunity for the College to reinforce its zero-tolerance policy toward bullying and encourage positive relationships and a culture of care.
Last week, all students in Years 7 - 10 undertook the following:
Structured Lesson on Bullying - This was undertaken in Religious Education classes. During this lesson, the students were shown the 2024 Tell Them From Me Data on Bullying.
They were prompted to consider what the data was telling us, and discussions and teaching took place on what constitutes bullying and its effects. Students were then given options to have their say. All students in Years 7 - 10 undertook the Student
Bullying Surveys – all students were given the opportunity to partake in the Bullying Survey. Students could anonymously name any other students they feel are being victimised or displaying inappropriate behaviours towards others. Importantly, the survey allows the College to support those students named in the surveys, and follow-up occurs through either the relevant Year Coordinator or the Pastoral Care Coordinator.
The students were also reminded that they can seek support from staff at any time if bullying is occurring. They can also access the Bully Free form on their intranet site and suggest processes that can be improved to help students feel safe at school.
Brainstorm Productions - The Flipside
This coming Thursday, the 29th, and Friday, the 30th of August, Brainstorm Productions will present their student wellbeing performance, ‘The Flipside, ’ for Years 7 -10. The Flipside is a live theatre experience that addresses (cyber) bullying, online safety, digital citizenship, bystander behaviour, and online ethics. The performance highlights the importance of personal responsibility, empathy, respect, and values in the online and offline worlds. Real student experiences are woven together to create a compelling story that poses questions about how we treat ourselves and others.
‘The Flipside’ is part of our student wellbeing curriculum and was developed by education and mental health professionals. The performance is supported by curriculum-aligned classroom activities that spark further discussion around these issues.
Brainstorm Productions is one of Australia’s most experienced and respected theatre in education companies, performing for over 260,000 students annually. They offer a range of programs to help schools nurture healthy and harmonious environments, addressing issues such as mental health, online safety, bullying and resilience, and are endorsed by the eSafety Commissioner as a Trusted eSafety Provider. Learn more about Brainstorm Productions by visiting their website (brainstormproductions.edu.au), or following them on Instagram (@brainstormproductions_), Facebook (@Brainstorm.Productions) or LinkedIn (linkedin.com/company/brainstormproductions).
McAuley Day
McAuley Day will be held on Friday, September 6th.
This day of celebration acknowledges our Mercy traditions and the founder of the Sisters of Mercy, Catherine McAuley. The day will include a McAuley Day Liturgy starting at 9:30 a.m., to which we extend an invitation to any parents and carers who wish to attend.
McAuley Day is one of the highlights of our school year. It is a day when we celebrate our traditions and come together as a community of Faith and Action. The day will include a range of activities and events, and each homeroom will run a fundraising activity. Money raised on the day will support Mercy Works programs the Sisters of Mercy run.
Mercy Works aims to improve the lives of vulnerable communities. They believe everyone has the right to education, health care and social welfare, regardless of where they live. Starting in our own country and expanding to our nearest neighbours, Papua New Guinea, the Philippines and Timor-Leste, Mercy Works run world-class programs that partner with challenged communities to enjoy the right to these basic resources. An example of a current project is famine relief in West Papua New Guinea. https://www.mercyworks.org.au/famine-relief-west-papua-new-guinea/
We encourage all students to participate in their homeroom and plan for this day. This is a day of social justice, where we come together to put others first. We ask students to bring a small amount of money to participate in the homeroom stalls and contribute to the fundraising for Mercy Works.
Kathy Warby
Assistant Principal - Mission and Wellbeing
On the 7th and 8th of August, Year 8 went on their first high school camp. We attended Coffs Harbour Adventure Centre for two days of activities and an overnight stay.
The focus of the camp was building relationships and resilience as they conquered high rope activities, participated in survivor challenges, flew down ziplines, rolled down hills in zorb balls and played laser tag. The students also kept themselves busy throughout the event with free time activities such as basketball and the gaga pit which received frequent action.
Year 8 highlighted hanging out with friends, cheering on each other in the activities and playing capture the flag during the dark as their memorable moments.
All in all, we had loads of fun, I believe the goals of building relationships and resilience were achieved and we have moved forward together as a year group.
School camps are such an important part of our year, and I look forward to year 9 camp in 2025!
Rowan Butcher
Year 8 Coordinator
Year 7 and 8 STEM MAD
Last Friday, August 23rd, Year 7 students Rahni Hummelstad, Zoe Godwin, Gabrielle Fergussion, and Isabel McSwan, as well as Year 8 students Pippi Short, Heidi van Leest, and Lily Barrett, were interviewed via Zoom as part of the Lismore Diocesan Showcase STEM MAD (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Maths Make a Difference) project.
STEM MAD is a prestigious national competition designed to recognise and promote STEM learning initiatives among students. The competition focuses on addressing real-world problems while emphasizing the distinctive values of Catholic Schools. It encourages students to actively contribute to societal well-being by undertaking projects that align with principles of justice and the common good, as articulated in the papal encyclical Laudato Si': On Care for our Common Home.
In the late afternoon on the same day, the girls were notified via an online Zoom awards ceremony that they had made it to the National Showcase! Year 7 will present their 'Biodegradable Water Filter' in the online showcase, and Year 8 will present their 'Study Buddy' wellbeing tool in person in Brisbane on 19 November.
A massive congratulations to all of these students! They have worked really hard on their projects and shown incredible flexibility and resilience in problem solving when things didn't work, and they had to revisit the drawing board and redesign. The girls now have a lot of work to do to get their prototype ready for the National Showcase.
A big thank you to the teachers who allowed the girls to leave class for the interviews and award ceremony.
Deborah Parkin
Science Teacher
Year 12 Wellbeing Day
Last Wednesday, 21st August our Year 12 Students participated in our annual Wellbeing Day. Students participated in an abundance of activities all aimed at improving wellbeing, life skills and building resilience including: cooking, motor mechanics, gardening, music, yoga, meditation, reflection and more!
The day also included guest speakers from Country University Centre, Clarence Valley and Headspace, Grafton who provided vital information about their transition from school/study programs.
The day was thoroughly engaging and overall well received by the Year 12 students. Thank you to all those involved in organising and running another successful event.
SHINE
On Thursday, 22nd August 50 students from Years 9 and 10 embarked on the journey to the Diocesan annual SHINE event which was hosted at St John Paul College (SJPC), Coffs Harbour this year.
SHINE is a two-day event about gathering with other young people from across the diocese for a common experience – encountering Jesus Christ and the Church, experiencing dynamic faith, being equipped for ministry and living the Christian life; empowered to impact the Church and the world.
The students were able to listen to inspiring keynote speakers, student testimonies, and partake in small group discussions, interactive workshops, prayer, Eucharistic Adoration and Mass over the course of the event.
All student feedback has been very positive and is highly recommended for those students in Years 9 and 10 next year to attend as an opportunity to deepen their faith whilst making new friends in a fun and fully supportive environment.
Thank you to the staff who supported in organising and attending this event, and special thank you to SJPC for hosting. We can't wait to do it all again next year!
It has been an absolute joy to recognise so many of our outstanding students during assemblies and to celebrate their achievements, dedication, and hard work across various areas. The catch-up Academic Awards Assembly for Year 11 Students was no exception.
We extend our heartfelt thanks to all the parents, caregivers, and grandparents who attended this momentous occasion at the College on Thursday, 15th August. Your presence made the event even more meaningful for the students and our school community.
Congratulations to all the students who received certificates for their exceptional academic performance and commitment to our College Expectations during Semester 1.
MCC Resources and Information
NSW Public Sector Apprentices and Trainees Program (suitable for current Year 12 School Leavers). Individuals can apply initially by completing a 25-question survey about skills and interest areas.
There is a long list of varied qualifications that can be considered by students.
Maclean Business Expo and Trade Show
As part of Small Business Month, Maclean District Business Chamber is running a Business Expo and Trade Show. It's a chance for all members of the community to come together and learn about our businesses in the area, but also potentially upskill. It would be a great event for students to attend, for career planning and also if they are interested in Entrepreneurship!
Find out more about the event and ticket purchases here.
Southern Cross University Coffs Harbour
Registrations are now open for the below on-campus event. Please reach out if you have any questions about how to register.
Coffs Harbour: Wednesday 11th September, 5pm – 7pm |
Newcastle Open Day | Saturday 31 August - 9am to 3pm Explore the Callaghan and City Campuses. Join a degree presentation, tours – including accommodation, The Expo in the Great Hall, and find out more about studying at the University of Newcastle. Register today!Early Entry Applications – Don’t forget to apply!The University of Newcastle’s Early Entry Program is for domestic Year 12 students completing either the NSW Higher School Certificate (HSC) or the ACT Senior Secondary Certificate (ACT SSC) in 2024.Early entry takes into account your Year 11 results, allowing you to secure an offer before your exams begin. Important dates:
- OFFER DAY 1 – Round one early offers will be released on 5 September 2024 (for applications submitted by 29 August).
- OFFER DAY 2 - Round two early offers will be released on 19 September 2024 (for applications submitted by 12 September).
- OFFER DAY 3 - Round three early offers will be released on 4 October 2024 (applications closed for Current School Leavers on 26 September).
Find out more and apply today!Ma & Morley Scholarship Program Information SessionsJoin the Ma & Morley Program team for our information sessions, where we'll provide an overview of the Scholarship Program and guide you through the application process. You'll have an opportunity to ask any burning questions!We are hosting two face-to-face sessions (Callaghan and Ourimbah) and one online session via Zoom.Applications are now open and close midnight, Monday 30 September - don't miss the chance to apply for this life-changing Scholarship!CALLAGHAN
- WHEN: Tuesday 3 September 1:00pm-2:00pm
- WHERE: VG07, Callaghan Campus
OURIMBAH
- WHEN: Wednesday 4 September 12:00pm-1:00pm
- WHERE: CN2104, Ourimbah Campus
ONLINE
- WHEN: Wednesday 11 September 4:30pm-5:30pm
Zoom links will be sent via email. Register Here
Catch up on ADFA Open Day!
If students missed the Australian Defence Force Academy’s (ADFA) Virtual or Campus Open Day, there’s no need to worry – we’ve put the highlights on ADFA On Demand.
You can access:
- Interviews with Academics, Cadets and Alumni
- Q&A panels with Training Officers
- Information Sessions on Arts, Business, Computing and Cyber Security, Engineering and Science from UNSW
- ADFA Virtual Campus Tour
Think ADFA is right for you? Year 11 students should start thinking about applying now for 2026.
Students can start by choosing three job preferences from the many options available at ADFA. Then submit their university preferences to match. Read more about the application process or see Frequently Asked Questions.
Find out more here!
Rod Paton
Careers Advisor
HEAL Workshops
Clapsticks - The last two weeks of HEAL have been an awesome learning experience for both the boys and girls. On Tuesday 13th August, we had the boys working in the technology rooms with Mr Bancroft, learning how to make clapsticks. All of the boys were super engaged and were learning from each other. The older boys in year 11 and 10 were on the lathe and demonstrated how to mark out and prepare the timber to be turned. We are hoping to do another workshop later in the term to finish all the clapsticks.
Mr Bowling found a beautiful piece of gum wood and Year 10 students Mason Cone and Peter Hammond were lucky enough to create two incredible boomerang shapes and shape them into amazing artifacts. Fingers crossed, we can find more gum in future, and all of the boys can make one each.
Weaving - Last week, we had the girls weaving. We were hopeful of having a guest leader take on this workshop, but unfortunately, we couldn't make it work, so Year 12 student Heather McGhee stepped up and demonstrated to the younger girls how to weave properly. The group engaged enthusiastically and produced some awesome work. Like the boy's group, we are hoping to have another weaving workshop later in the term so they can perfect their skills and provide essential learning to the next generation coming through.
Cultural Walk
On Wednesday, August 21st, we were lucky enough to go on a cultural walk in Yagel country. The plan was to visit some sacred sites around Yaegl country, and we were fortunate to be accompanied by Aunty Diedrie Randall, a local elder from the Yaegl Mob.
We went to Ulgundahi Island first, then Green Point followed by Angourie Point. We finished the day off with lunch and some stories down at the Green and Blue Pools, Angourie. As young indigenous kids from all areas it is important to know and understand the stories that come with country.
Thank you to Aunty Diedrie for coming on the trip with us. We hope to visit the country again next term.
Angus Field
Aboriginal Education Worker
The Library has been very busy this week preparing our Dragon's Den for McAuley Book Week. We've been so busy we kind of forgot about the Newsletter! Watch this space in the Week 7 Newsletter for our 2024 McAuley Book Week review, along with pictures from this Friday's McAuley Book Week Dress Up parade!
We can't wait to share with you all the magic our students create when they are inspired by their favourite stories, books and tales.
Mercy Library Staff
August
26th-30th: McAuley Book Week
Yr 11 Work Placement Week 1
27th: U18s CCC Netball - Netball Central SOP
Yr 12 Geography Wetlands & Tourism Excursion
28th-29th: RIEP Engineering Program
29th: Yr 9 & 10 Brainstorm Productions
U14s & U16s Boys and U16s Girls Rugby 7s, Coffs Harbour
Father's Day Breakfast 7.45am-8.40am, Catherine's Cafe (at College)
30th: Yr 7 & 8 Brainstorm Productions
McAuley Medal Applications Close
McAuley Book Week - Dress Up Day
September
2nd: Dio Athletics, Coffs Harbour
2nd-6th: Yr 11 Work Placement Week 2
3rd: Yr 8 Medieval Day
4th: HSC Major Projects Showcase Evening
5th: FNC Netball NSW Cup Finals
6th: McAuley Day
9th: Yr 9 Love Bites
10th: NRCC - U15s & Opens Boys & Girls Touch Football, Sth Grafton
11th: Yr 7 & 10 Catch Up Vaccinations Clinic
13th: Vinnies School Sleepout
16th-20th: Yr 11 Exams
18th-20th: Yr 9 Camp
19th: NRCC - Boys & Girls Rugby Union
19th-22nd: IGNITE
25th: Yr 12 Graduation Ceremony
26th: Last Day of Term 3
27th: Staff Development Day - Pupil Free Day
Opportunity for Parents: Supporting Mental Health Wellbeing of Children and Young People
Research into how to best support children and young people with mental health challenges is critical to ensuring that as a society we have evidence-based, best practice support strategies for our young people. Southern Cross University is offering parents of children aged 10-13 with mental health needs an opportunity to access a high quality online education program as part of a research project. Further information is available on this flyer (below) for those parents/carers who would like to learn more or apply to be a part of this research project.
Breaking Point with Dr Justin Coulson
Wednesday 11 September from 7.00 pm – 8.00 pm
Join Dr Justin Coulson, Australia’s leading parenting expert, as he unpacks the mental health needs of children and young people. The session will include:
- The root causes behind the deteriorating state of mental health, and who (or what) is responsible.
- The tools you need to reverse this trend for your children.
- Science-backed, relationship-focused strategies to remedy school refusal.
- Realistic approaches for managing screen time in a way that protects your child’s wellbeing without completely alienating them from their peers.
- Creating a margin in your home and family life to protect and promote mental wellness.
To register, click here.
NSW Children's Week 2024 Art Competition - now open
Children’s Week runs from 19 October – 27 October 2024, with the theme based on the UNCRC Article 24: Children have the right to a clean and safe environment.
For Children’s Week 2024, the Office of the Advocate for Children and Young People, together with the NSW Children’s Week Council, is inviting entries for the NSW Children’s Week Art Competition.
Children and young people are invited to submit artwork that shows the ways they connect with and enjoy the environment around them.
The competition is open to all children and young people living in NSW up to the age of 18. Group entries are accepted and encouraged. Entries close on Monday, 30 September 2024.
Find out more on the link below:
Online Safety - Essential Conversations
The Catholic Schools Office of the Lismore Diocese has provided essential information regarding childrens' safety online and resources for parents and guardians in a recent communication article sent to schools across the Diocese. We will be including a topic item from this article in each Newsletter from Term 3, Week 3 - Term 4, Week 9
If someone distributes a nude image or video of your young person online, it constitutes image-based abuse, and it is against the law. When teenagers under 18 take nude photographs or videos of themselves, this material is classified as child pornography. Under federal law, it’s an offence for anyone to access, transmit, possess, publish, control, supply or obtain child pornography.
When young people talk about ‘sending nudes’, it usually means sharing intimate photos or videos of themselves with someone else using an online message or chat function, or a phone text service. ‘Sexting’ means sending a sexual message or text, with or without a photo or video.
‘Intimate images’ include nudes, partial nudes, fake nudes, naked selfies and upskirting, as well as screenshots or screen recordings of private activity like having sex or going to the toilet.
- Where to start the conversation? Starting the conversation about these topics must be grounded in your family's beliefs and values. Make sure you have early, regular and protective conversations with your young person about the values you have as a family regarding respect and care for others and the dignity of each human person.
- Open the conversation with a real-life story from the media. Ask questions like ‘Do you think it was right for them to share that photo after they broke up?’ Follow up by asking ‘Why?’, ‘Why not?’ or ‘Tell me more’ to help you understand more about what they’re thinking.
- Explore what their friends think about sharing nudes. Ask your young person what they think might happen if one of their friend’s nudes went viral and how they would get help.
- Discuss with them how to say ‘no’ when someone asks for an intimate image or video. You can encourage them to be firm by suggesting a response such as: "Sorry, but that's not my vibe. I'm all about respecting myself. Let's stick to chatting about things that actually matter."
- What if you discover your young person is asking a peer for images? There are a number of reasons why a young person might request images but the overwhelming reason they do it is peer pressure. It is important that you have conversations with your young person about what is a healthy relationship, how to show respect and affection for others appropriately and seek external support if required.
- Tell them they can always talk with you, no matter how worried or embarrassed they feel. Let them know that you will help them work things out if they feel pressured to share an intimate image or video of themselves or if they have shared an intimate image or video of someone else.
Read more at eSafety The hard-to-have conversations. If you have any concerns about your young person please contact the school. It is important for the school to know any wellbeing issues that may impact on learning and behaviour at school
As mentioned in our previous newsletters over the last few weeks, the College offers lunch orders online through the Flexischools app. Please see the attached flyer to get started.
Please find attached the latest Parish Bulletins from Clarence Valley Parish